Handsome guys, “ugly” ladies.


Handsome guys, “ugly” ladies.


“I promise. I will never date any lady anywhere in this world where I will give the whole of my heart to that lady. I know I deserve this. My friends warned me about ladies infidelity and fickle minds, but I never listened to them. From today, even if I fail my exams now, I will file for re-sit. I know this is my fault for investing my future in a lady who claimed she loved me”.

These were the texts of my very close pal in examination hall.

I lamented over this hurdle he has to overcome before starting his paper. I said to myself, if a lady can ruin a guy’s life through a relation in the name of love, then all guys are not saved. We must run for “everlasting” shelter perhaps to preserve over heart for “miss right” or better still for God.

I have known this guy for years. This friend embodies the qualities fidelity, religious, sincerity and very intelligent both in school and home.

What happened?

Ladies curiosity, curiosity, they say kills a cat but this time, it was not a cat that was kill but a human being. Throughout the life span of their relation, I realised that the lady had everything she wanted: money, care, sacrifice, recognition, comfort and everything that comes with a very good and holy relation.

They were one time acclaimed the best couple on campus by one Campus Magazine. All parties’ parents knew about the relation. Their relationship even begins to unlock the mystery behind “love”-that love is blind and unconditional etc.

I again realised that throughout the relationship, they lack one satisfaction which every human being born of man will seek- sex. Meanwhile, they have agreed not to have sex till marriage. Everything turned sour when my very good friend caught the lady in bed with another friend of his. Shocked‼ That was not the first time but numerous times. This was what broke my friend’s heart.

For once, I began to like the “yooyoo guy” for who everybody interpreted them to be. Nobody or guy wants to be a womaniser. Every guy wants to leave as decent as possible but sometimes, it lies on the ladies. A “yooyoo guy” was once a decent guy but due to these instances of heartbreak and other trouble he might resort to retaliation on other ladies.

Remember, issues of the heart is complicated hence everybody must jealously and single handedly guide and guard the heart.

This comes to mind about what guys hate and feared in a relationship:

Of course, what every guy fear in a relationship is “broken heart”. It is commonly said, that is the reason guys try to have multiple partners with the intention that if one fails one will be there for him.

Again disappointment, every guy do not actually wants to be disappointed or taken for granted. This attitude is common with ladies. A lady will promise to come to your house or have a date with a guy, it is likely the lady won’t come especially if the relationship is nurturing and do not have the full commitment of the lady.

I remember, a friend of my invited his girl to a party though the lady showed up but was found later in the company of other guys.

So, I ask. If a “yooyoo guy” should encounter this lady and interest grows among them and engages in sex after which the guy starts to toy with her feeling, is it the fault of the guys or the lady?

Ladies generally are indecisive and fickle minded. I believe that a complete woman is someone who is decisive, bold and confident and cherishes what she has. Every lady wants flashy stuff to “flex” with. This has always been the problem with ladies. In their quest to satisfy their flashy, they ended up being “used”.


Ladies generally wants to suffer because they fail to see the good side of gentle, caring and of course innocent guys. I believe that ladies should rather cherish their guys very well.

Recent global survey about the ratio of guys to ladies revealed that every guy is to seven ladies (1:7). Every lady should begin to cherish their loved ones because he chose you over six ladies.

This debunks the assertion that guys are “ugly” and assert ladies are “ugly”.

By Joshua Kweikuma Quaye.

(Ghananewslink.com).

Level200B

Email: quaye2000@gmail.com.





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